It took summer of 2018 for Indians to finally get a glimpse of a woman taking her sexual pleasure into her own hands. A culture that gave Kamasutra to the world, is still awfully shy when it comes to anything related to sex and pleasure, especially when it is about women.
Women are often demonized for having sexual desires, let alone wanting to explore their bodies like any other healthy human. And the same thing we saw addressed in 2018 Bollywood movie “Veere Di Wedding” when Sakshi (played by Swara Bhaskar), who feels unsatisfied by her husband, decided to take the matters into her own hands (literally!) to discover her body and pleasure with the help of her vibrator. But when her husband finds this out, he is appalled and decides to divorce her.
In the same year, we had “Lust Stories” releasing on Netflix that explored a similar thread in one of its stories, where a sexually dissatisfied married woman decides to find her own pleasure with the help of her a vibrator. Well, a lot about these movie scenes was eaten away by controversies and noise, taking away from the actual discussion that was needed. Entry of vibrators (pun intended!) on to the Indian screens, homes and the market as well… finally!
With the awareness spreading about sexual health, and the increasing phenomena of women owning their bodies, the sales of sex toys went up by 65% in India post lockdown, as per a survey. According to a trends forecast report, Indian sex toy market is now one of the fastest growing industries, with so many homegrown brands arising in the space, bringing conversations around sexuality, sexual wellness and pleasure to forefront. And many of these sexual wellness brands in India have been founded or co-founded by women entrepreneurs.
Vibrators can be a tool used to explore your own bodies in a safe space, without the eyes of someone else. Or if you’re already an expert on it, an “interesting” way to explore higher levels of pleasure with a partner. From beginners to pros, they can enhance any situation you might find yourself in, and take the heat up a notch (or a couple notches depending on the speed setting you use, really). The only thing that you need now is information on what intimate massager to use.
Get ready to say “tauba! tauba!” because we are bringing you a guide to pick the perfect vibrator for your inner sex goddess, where all the products are exclusively from women-led brands.
Level 1: The Bullet Vibrator
‘Mini’ by MyMuse, founded by Anushka and Sahil Gupta
“Best birthday present to myself.”
The only bullet not meant for violence; this vibrator is for the newbies. Easy to use, discreet enough to be mistaken for lipstick, and cost effective, this one is used to stimulate nipples, clitoris, and anything external on your body basically. To use it, just place the device against or near the part and experiment with the speed settings as well as the pressure.
A couple things you might need to make sure of are that the surface is cleaned before and especially after, to ensure a safe, prolonged use of the product. A lubricant, compatible with your device of course, can be used initially to ensure more pleasure and less chafing. With a 100 Days warranty and 2.5 hours runtime, MyMuse’s Mini (Priced at Rs. 2,999) makes for a perfect choice to get you going.
Level 2: The Wand Vibrator
’Bijlee’ by Leezu’s, founded by Leeza Mangaldas
“So powerful”
Originally meant to be used as back massagers, wand vibrators are identifiable by their bulbous end and a wand under it, hence the name. Leezu’s Bijlee comes with 10 speed and pattern settings. With its high speed settings, you could try and hide from your orgasm but it would be of no use. It comes with a smooth silicone exterior and sleek handle which makes it easy to hold and use. And it is so compact that makes it discreet to pack and hide.
Bijlee (priced at Rs. 2,899) is washable and shower-friendly, so you can use it while enjoying some alone bath time with ultimate relaxtion. It can be easily charged with a USB and it runs for 1.5 hours non-stop. But remember that this vibrator is also only meant for external use; it may be akin to magician’s wand but its magic has some limits. Follow the same hygiene precautions, add that lube, and get vibin’!
Level 3: The Suction Massager
’LIT Massager’ by That Sassy Thing, founded by Sachee Malhotra
“Don’t let the small size fool u! LIT is very strong in the sensations it gives. 10/10 recommend!”
You could scream “you s*$k!” at this vibrator and be completely right. It does, and it does it well! Suction vibrators were designed to recreate the sensation of a mouth on your clitoris, because we women have been through enough and this is an apology from the world of tech, to make up for the lack of skill experienced in real life situations. And with That Sassy Thing’s LIT Massager (Priced at Rs. 4199) and its special suction technique, you might be inclined to accept.
This smart massager, comes in two colors – Hot Pink and Purple. It offers a targeted sensational experience making you reach new heights of pleasure, all by yourself! This one has 5 speed levels, is splash-proof, and comes with a charging cable and a run-time of 1.5 hours. It’s compact and travel friendly, makes it easy for you to carry wherever you go.
Level 4: The G-Spot Massager
‘Groove’ by MyMuse, founded by Anushka Gupta
“Lets see stars”
Ooh, we are getting a little advanced with this one. You’ve been playing outside for a while and it’s time to come inside (pun intended!). A G-spot vibrator is made for internal stimulation, unlike the other vibrators we’ve seen until now. Available in multiple colors, this vibrator inserts into your vagina and offers different vibrational sensation for a stimulation that isn’t humanly possible.
Not to play favorites but MyMuse’s Groove vibrator (priced at Rs 6,499) that has a ribbed angled head to ensure your G-spot gets proper attention and care. It comes with 10 speed cycles, and a run-time of 3-3.5 hours over one complete charge. Just ensure that you’ve read the manual once and are at the top of the hygiene game, and you’re good to go. Sigh, if only men came with speed settings.
Level 5: The Rabbit Vibrator
‘Sangya 10- Thrusting Massager’ by Sangya Project, founded by Tanisha RK, Shweta Sangtani, and Aashish Mehrotra
“Went crazy every time I used it.”
Though given a cute little name, this vibrator is a beast when it comes to satisfying you. Meant to be internal massager, a rabbit vibrator provides stimulation both on the clitoris as well as the elusive G-spot. All you need is some wine, this vibrator and a comfy place to lay back for a good while.
The Sangya 10-Thrusting Massager (priced at Rs 7,999), comes with 12 vibration and speed settings. Seriously, you could call your toxic ex-boyfriend who could try to make you feel good, or you can buy this vibrator and raise your standards of personal pleasure. Orgasms and better mental health, it’s a win-win.
Well, you don’t always need a man to spice up your life. You can explore your body in the safety of your own room, with these empowering instruments of pleasure. If the pleasure, dopamine rush, and a thrill of owning something so naughty wasn’t enough, remember you’re participating in the movement of bringing sex-positivity. Activism has never felt better, really. So reward yourself. You deserve it!
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